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The day before we left, he actually lost his temper with me and asked me if I was out of my mind and why I hadn't booked the tickets earlier. When the tickets were booked, he said that he was probably too busy with work and suggested that I should not come, but the big deal was that I would lose the money for a ticket.
I was particularly angry and thought he was too casual, so I asked him to compensate me for the loss of a thousand dollars in airfare. But then I thought, I couldn't bear the thought of not seeing him for months, so I insisted on going.
Day 1: I tossed and turned all the way around, first by plane and then by car.
When I arrived at my destination, it was raining heavily, but he told me to find my own accommodation and said he was not available to pick me up. He didn't show up until 8:00 p.m., chatted casually, took me for a walk around the neighborhood, and then said he had to get an early night because he had a training session the next day.
The next day: I slept in the morning and went for a walk on the beach alone in the afternoon. He came back to his place at 11pm, spoke briefly, and told me that he wouldn't be allowed to come back to stay tomorrow for training, so he couldn't stay with me.
Day 3: I slept until I woke up, packed up the house and left. The layover took a day and a half of no sleep until May 4th when I arrived home.
The meeting was so short and far away that I don't know if I was being too melodramatic, I just wanted him to spend more time with me, but it all just ended so hastily.
Along the way, I ate and rushed alone, and he seldom communicated with me, and told me not to talk for fear of affecting his rest. Once he was on the phone with a colleague, I thought he had hung up, so I interjected, but it turned out he hadn't finished.
Hi, first a warm hug from across the room! It's great to see you sharing in the group and I hope my advice gives you some support. From your description, I can feel your deep attachment to the relationship.
We have to allow ourselves to recognize that it's normal to crave more alone time and companionship in a relationship. But it's also important to understand that the person who can be there for you at all times is actually you, and that the emotional support you wish to receive from your boyfriend or an intimate relationship can be something you try to give yourself first.
Intimacy is ostensibly about two people, but it actually reflects our relationship with ourselves. When you feel that your boyfriend is cold, perfunctory or doesn't value you, why don't you dare to be brave enough to voice your true feelings and needs? If you can't even be kind to yourself, how can you ask him to be?
Only when you truly accept yourself from the inside out and believe that you are good enough and worthy of love can you openly express your needs when you are hurting and learn to treat yourself the way you want to be treated.
When you are always taking in a relationship, it is also important to reflect on whether you have the ability to give? Because a long-lasting, harmonious relationship requires a rough balance of give and take on both sides.
I'm Lilly the Answer House Little Ears, the world and I love you.
