It is often said that if you have a strong desire for something, the energy of the entire universe seems to converge and push you closer to your goal.
But what about this whole relationship thing? Is it true that if you desire it enough, you can easily find your other half? I often ask myself if I haven't met the right person yet because I don't yearn hard enough and just fantasize about it once in a while. I am not sure if I know how to love and be loved, but I am certain that I have the courage to give everything for love. As a girl, how do I naturally express my feelings to the boy I love?
There is no standard answer to the question, "Can longing help the world?". Sometimes, a strong desire can really unleash your potential, make you more proactive and creative, and then opportunities and resources seem to come to you automatically, as if you have an external force to help you. But the world of relationships is different, it's much more complicated, and you can't get what you want just by longing. Meeting the right person takes fate, timing, and multiple factors, and longing is just one piece of the puzzle. If you want to let the guy you're interested in notice your good feelings, you can create more opportunities for natural contact, such as chatting about common hobbies, participating in activities together, and sharing your feelings without thinking about it. But don't be too proactive so as not to put pressure on the other party. The key is to remain sincere and confident, show their own charm, while respecting their own selves, not to cater to others and lose themselves.
