There is a 13-year-old boy at home who has been particularly grumpy for the last half a month and no one can control him. He refuses to eat and locks himself in his room all day long to play on the computer. What's more worrying is that he has shown extreme behaviors such as holding knives and glass, and threatened to take revenge on his family even if he goes to jail. Faced with this situation, what should parents do?
Hello everyone, this is Mr. Liu. Let me share some advice that I hope will help you:
Growing a child is like planting a tree; to make it grow straight and smooth, you have to prune the branches before it's too late. If you wait until the tree grows into a big tree, you may hurt the root.
First, parents have to look for the reasons from themselves first. If the upper beam is set right, the lower beam will not be crooked naturally.
Second, find a suitable opportunity to talk to your child about the conditions in a gentle but firm way, or discuss them properly.
Third, in resource management, such as controlling network usage, you can think of some practical tricks.
Fourth, the adults in the family, including parents and the elderly, have to unify their voices and not tear each other down.
ε Bless you. I am in, the world and I love you.
