I'm about to be a senior in high school, but my mom and dad are fighting and hitting each other every day, and I've advised them to get a divorce, but they won't do it. Honestly, no child wants their parents to separate, but I really don't know what to do, every time they fight, I feel especially desperate.
I get extra sad and angry and my head starts to hurt, especially at my temples where it feels like pins and needles.
The headache was so bad it felt like it was going to explode, and I didn't think I was going to make it.
It really hurts that you are in this situation and I can understand how you feel.
You yourself are about to be a senior in high school, and studying is a critical time. The environment at home is not quiet, and your parents are often noisy. Have you ever considered not living at home for a while? For example, moving to the school dormitory, or finding a quiet place to study to avoid being affected.
The truth is, whether your parents get divorced or not is between the two of them, and to put it bluntly, it has very little to do with you. It's not something you can decide or fix, much less your fault, so don't take the blame on yourself.
What can you do? Wait and see what happens first and try to understand and tolerate them. As a child, you may not fully understand the conflict between them, and we can't help them decide whether to make up or divorce.
What can be done then? The most important thing right now is to do your part, focus on your studies, and slowly adjust your mindset.
